Day 18 → Your views on gay marriage.

Gay marriage, very interesting topic.

I have had about 3 friends who are gay in my lifetime, of which i am still friendly with 2, as the other friend emigrated overseas and we lost touch.

I believe everyone has to be happy. And if being with another woman/man makes you happy, then why not?

Look at people like Ellen and Portia – they are fantastic as individuals, and powerful x2 as a couple!

I also believe that as you cannot change your sexuality, why should you be sneered down upon for something you did not choose? Yes, perhaps you could attempt to fob off rumors, say, by getting married, and even having children, until your marriage blows up in your face, and your spouse feels confused because they may have not suspected that you are gay, and you rock their world and your kids, because although simple, they too might struggle to understand that “Daddy loves men“.

The spate of gay teenagers killing themselves due to bullying and simply being afraid to face life as a gay person and having to fight off such discrimination is completely unacceptable to me! As a person who does not give a flying f____ I couldn’t care what others think of me; accept me as I am, or leave. And it is a great pity that people cannot accept people based on the good they do within society, but rather on their sexuality. It seems very distorted and cruel to me.

I say: do it! Find a person who makes you happy, who accepts you as you are, and make a life for yourself based on what YOU want it to be, not what others THINK it should.

The following images of Ellen and Portia (and for sure they are not the only gay couple, but I have a soft spot for them) simply fill my heart with happiness to see such love!

P.S. – I still don’t understand how lesbians have “sex” (as a dildo is a sex toy) and “scissoring”, but that’s another tale for another time, to portray my ignorance.

Day 01 → Something you hate about yourself
Day 02 → Something you love about yourself
Day 03 → Something you have to forgive yourself for.
Day 04 → Something you have to forgive someone for.
Day 05 → Something you hope to do in your life.
Day 06 → Something you hope you never have to do.
Day 07 → Someone who has made your life worth living for.
Day 08 → Someone who made your life hell, or treated you like shit.
Day 09 → Someone you didn’t want to let go, but just drifted.
Day 10 → Someone you need to let go, or wish you didn’t know.
Day 11 → Something people seem to compliment you the most on.
Day 12 → Something you never get compliments on.
Day 13 → A band or artist that has gotten you through some tough ass days. (write a letter.)
Day 14 → A hero that has let you down. (letter)
Day 15 → Something or someone you couldn’t live without, because you’ve tried living without it.
Day 16 → Someone or something you definitely could live without.
Day 17 → A book you’ve read that changed your views on something.
Day 18 → Your views on gay marriage.
Day 19 → What do you think of religion? Or what do you think of politics?
Day 20 → Your views on drugs and alcohol.
Day 21 → (scenario) Your best friend is in a car accident and you two got into a fight an hour before. What do you do?
Day 22 → Something you wish you hadn’t done in your life.
Day 23 → Something you wish you had done in your life.
Day 24 → Make a playlist to someone, and explain why you chose all the songs. (Just post the titles and artists and letter)
Day 25 → The reason you believe you’re still alive today.
Day 26 → Have you ever thought about giving up on life? If so, when and why?
Day 27 → What’s the best thing going for you right now?
Day 28 → What if you were pregnant or got someone pregnant, what would you do?
Day 29 → Something you hope to change about yourself. And why.
Day 30 → A letter to yourself, tell yourself EVERYTHING you love about yourself


One response to this post.

  1. I totally agree with you. Judge people on who, not what they are.

    Hopefully in 20 years time we’ll look back on the fuss about gay marriage that same way we wonder about why interracial marriage was banned 🙂


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